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We all have a perspective of what life should be. It is determined by many factors. Certainly, family, friends, nationality, ethnicity, social class, and culture all play a part. Relationships, accomplishments, and experiences throughout life can also influence us profoundly. Perspective in one area of our life may be quite definite, while in other areas, very vague. For example, we may favor one political party very strongly, identifying with its core beliefs, yet know little about international politics. Perspective is an interpretation, formed primarily through influences outside us.
Why is perspective important? It gives the world an idea of what you think and what is important to you. We all have our own perspective on broad ideas, narrow ideas and all thoughts in between.
It’s good to note, perspectives come in all sizes. A “narrow” perspective is only narrow when viewed from one that has a broader outlook. A “broader” perspective may encompass much more than is reasonable to someone with a narrower look on life. Is either better or worse? I would say no, as long as each person respects the other’s point of view. It is when respect is missing that problems can arise. When our perspective is close to another person’s, we tend to agree. Often times, however, our perspective does not mesh with others. Sometimes this causes conflict, which may be relatively easy to resolve, or may be extremely difficult.Occasionally, our perspective can hold us back on our life journey. We look at life in a particular way and want to share our outlook with friends, family, and/or co-workers. If we insist on agreement, or we are disrespectful of their viewpoint, problems may arise. Losing friends, loved ones, or a job because of a tenacious view, should be a wake up call indicating something is amiss. It’s a good time to take stock of your viewpoint, others’ outlook, and the situation in general. If you decide to hold on to your perspective and are able to live with it, then so be it. However, if a situation repeats itself and it makes you unhappy, it is a good indicator that change is necessary. Change in perspective (opinion, life view) may be an appropriate means of resolving a conflict you may be dealing with. It is not necessarily easy to change one’s outlook, but if a job or a relationship is important enough, it is worth the effort.Reiki is a modality which can assist with change in many areas. It can help with intention and motivation to help you move forward in life. Sometimes, we are not able to see the forest through the trees, or the trees through the forest. Reiki helps bring clarity to our thinking and helps us find the path that feels right for us. So your perspective is your perspective. When it causes you problems, find a different perspective that works.
